cyber bullies

Lert: So ... Saying something negative in incidental in-game chat in the heat of the moment is 'cyber bullying'? And here I was, believing that actual bullying is a lot more serious than just strangers in a match in a fake internet pixel game ...   I bow down to the wisdom of people who obviously know more about cyber bullying than the official website about it, where it is clearly implied that bullying is what happens when someone purposely opens up avenues of contact like IM's, PM's, E-mails, etc etc for the specific purpose to insult and cause mental distress - rather than using incidental chat to vent heat-of-the-moment rage.   It's also clearly defined that bullying is what happens between kids, and when adults are involved, it's harassment.   Are you just a kid? I sure aren't.