The whole matchmaker thing...

Lert: You know what, forget it. Sick and tired of arguing with idiots who just don't get it. Did way too much of it, never helps. Just letting it go is much better for my bloodpressure.   Enjoy your frustration, Hillaan. It's not going to change, so you might as well get used to it. Or go play something more your speed, like Hello Kitty Online.