guilty before proven

Dakiras:   I agree with this. Sure, they can be hurtful sometimes, but the way to deal with that is to report them and let them get a spank from our moderators. Showing them it doesn't bother you is also quite a good thing to do since they just want to get a rise out of you. Just don't stoop to their level - it's really not worth it.   If you want to reply, you could do so eloquently. There are ways to put people down while being pleasant. Calling them "Princess"... genius idea from BattleMetalChris there. I'm borrowing that one! ;)