Why are we okay with known figures, numbers 2021?

Draschel:  Lets take a look at this statement. Evaluating rhetoric, it comes down to the tact used. Even if the message can be similar, one must mind their manners.1- One person may say,  '' You perform poorly, compared to others. Sorry, but perhaps you do not understand fundamentals, or other issues bar your progress. Averages amongst others, dictate higher performance in this criteria''2- Another may say,  ''you are horrible. Why play if you suck? Learn to play potato. Actually better yet, just uninstall, no one cares about you scrubs anyway'' I can see you do not know which is which.